LOOKING BACK
If I had my life to live over
I’d dare to make more mistakes next time.
I’d relax.
I would limber up.
I would be sillier than I have been this trip.
I would take fewer things seriously.
I would take more chances.
I would take more trips.
I would climb more mountains and swim more rivers.
I would eat more ice cream and less beans.
I would perhaps have more actual troubles
But I’d have fewer imaginary ones.
You see, I’m one of those people who live sensibly
And sanely, hour after hour, day after day.
Oh, I’ve had my moments,
and if I had it to do over again
I’d have more of them.
In fact, I’d try to have nothing else.
Just moments,
one after another
Instead of living so many years ahead of each day.
I’ve been one of those persons who never goes anywhere
Without a thermometer, a hot water bottle, and a parachute.
If I had to do it again, I would travel lighter than I have.
If I had my life to live over,
I would start barefoot earlier in the spring
And stay that way later in the fall..
I would go to more dances.
I would ride more merry-go-rounds.
I would pick more daisies.
- Nadine Stair, Louisville, Kentucky, at 85 years of age, as reported in the Association for Humanistic Psychology Newsletter, July 1975